Your Secret Weapon - Role Models: Building Your Freedom 'Friends Circle' from Scratch

As, what I'd say, just being a normal busy person I've discovered that the path to an extraordinary life isn't meant to be walked alone. Yes, I have my wife, kids, family and some friends and I love them and they all help. But they are not all world leaders in my core life values. So, in our hyper-connected world, finding the right companions for your journey can feel paradoxically challenging, they are all there yet somehow so distant.

Today, I'm sharing my strategic approach to building meaningful connections through intentional role model selection – a method that has transformed my solo path into a shared adventure of growth that you can use for yourself.

The Power of Intentional Values

Before we dive into choosing role models, let's talk about why values come first. Your values are your compass, guiding every decision and relationship in your life. Here are mine:

If I have Freedom I can focus on my other values.

My Core Values:

1. Freedom - Inner, financial, location, time... independence that allows me to design my ideal life.

2. Adventure - Embracing both physical challenges (Sea to Summit) and entrepreneurial ventures with equal enthusiasm.

3. Intentional Living - Making conscious choices rather than letting life happen by default.

4. Rational Optimism - Approaching challenges with both analytical thinking and unwavering positivity.

5. Value Creation - Contributing meaningful solutions and opportunities to others' lives.

6. Family Balance - Integrating personal ambitions with quality family time.

   
   

Choosing Your Role Models

I've found that five primary role models, each embodying different aspects of these values, create the perfect balance for meaningful connection and growth. Here's my selection:

The Freedom/Business Expert: Naval Ravikant

Naval embodies the essence of creating wealth through wisdom and leverage. His insights on building wealth without sacrificing freedom, combined with his philosophical approach to life and decision-making, perfectly align with my values of strategic growth and rational thinking.

The Adventure/Exploration Leader: Gone With The Wynns

Having met Jason and Nikki Wynn personally, I've seen firsthand how they've transformed their passion for exploration into a sustainable lifestyle. Their journey from RV life to worldwide sailing adventures while building a successful content business proves that adventure and entrepreneurship can beautifully coexist.

The Intentional Living/Family Balance Master: Ryan Reynolds

Reynolds demonstrates how to balance a successful career with family life while maintaining authenticity. His approach to business ventures, particularly in marketing and brand building, shows how creativity and strategic thinking can create outsized results while prioritizing family time.

The Rational Optimist Thought Leader: Matt Ridley

Author of "The Rational Optimist," Ridley's data-driven approach to optimism resonates deeply with my worldview. He shows how progress and innovation naturally emerge from human collaboration and exchange, supporting my belief in community building and value creation.

The Community Builder/Value Creator: Tony Robbins

Robbins has mastered the art of creating transformative experiences at scale. His ability to build and nurture a global community while delivering consistent value demonstrates the power of combining authentic leadership with strategic business acumen.

The Strategic Connection Plan

Here's how I plan to engage with each role model meaningfully:

1. Deep Content Engagement

   • Regular, thoughtful comments on their content

   • Sharing personal insights and experiences

   • Contributing value to their community discussions

2. Content Creation and Dialogue

   • Creating response content that builds on their ideas

   • Sharing my unique perspective while crediting their influence

   • Engaging in public discourse about shared interests

3. Community Participation

   • Active involvement in their online communities

   • Connecting with other community members

   • Contributing to group discussions and projects

4. Value-First Approach

   • Sharing relevant resources and connections

   • Highlighting their impact on my journey

   • Supporting their initiatives and projects

   
   

Your Turn - Action Steps

Ready to build your own freedom 'friends circle'? Here's your roadmap:

1. Define Your Values

   • List your non-negotiable principles

   • Identify what truly drives you

   • Consider both personal and professional aspirations

2. Select Your Role Models

   • Choose 5 primary figures who align with your values

   • Ensure diverse perspectives across your core areas

   • Look for accessibility and engagement potential

3. Create Your Engagement Plan

   • How will you meaningfully connect with each?

   • What unique value can you offer?

   • How will you track and nurture these relationships?

4. Set Realistic Goals

   • Monthly engagement targets

   • Content creation plans

   • Community participation objectives

   
   

Conclusion

Building your freedom 'friends circle' through strategic role model selection isn't just about networking – it's about creating a community that elevates your journey and supports your growth. Remember, authentic relationships take time to develop, but the compound effect of consistent, meaningful engagement is worth every moment invested.

I'd love to hear about your chosen role models and how they align with your values. Share your thoughts in the comments below, and let's build this community of freedom-seeking adventurers together.

What role models will you choose to guide your journey to freedom? The adventure begins with your first intentional connection.